No one
known’s when its going to happen?
You date a
little , talk a lot........
Next thing
you know you are in relationship.......
But the,
reality strikes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Long
distance relationships are tough..................
They come
with all slots of challenges .
All the
same ones as normal relationships, but they are stretched because of distance...
Long
distance relationships are especially tough when they are new.....
# TRUST
#
Can i trust
this person when they are not with me?
Are they
thinking about me?
Do they
miss me?
#
LOYALTY #
Can i trust
myself when i am not with them?
What if
someone else makes me feel more special and i get carried away
# TIME
#
Will they
make time for me?
Will they
have time for me?
Will the
time difference work?
# PRIORITY #
Will they
make a priority?
Am i am
real priority to them
These are
pretty much the same in any relationship but it completely hightenes in a long
distance relationship.
If you want
to make long distance relationship work, there a few things you need to known
You have to
decide realistic commitments for communications.
Now,
everyone wants thing to be spontaneous and random but this only way it will
truly work.
When you
make a plan to speak at the same time everyday or at same time in a week that
makes it much more realistic for both of
you commit to that and to be able to see
whether the other person actually cares
You also
want to have a contingency plan. If some one isn’t able to make a call or face
time or meet , then have a back up already in mind.
Be really
care about who you are, spending time with in your private lives. Its not worth
some finding out something through a picture or chat etc on social media.
Right! Even
if its tough or awkward at first, its better to be transparent in the beginning
because thats definitely the right thing to do.
Suprise
vistis are amazing when they work but make sure its working both ways.
Reflect on
how important this relationship is to you and whether the long distance
relationships is truly worth it.
Its really
important that you don’t feel pressure in your personal alone time
If you are
spending time with your family or your
friends and you are worried about what the other person would be thinking or
doing thats something you really need to talk through.
And finally
known that arguments will happen , disagreement
will occur.
Remember ,
long distance only gets tough when you truly let i get between you.
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